INFJ · The Advocate
Reads what was left unsaid and quietly sets the direction.
- Group
- Diplomats
- I Introverted
- N Intuitive
- F Feeling
- J Judging
Character
You grasp motives and undercurrents intuitively, and you cannot do work that runs against your conviction for long. Gentle on the outside, your internal standard is firm, and only a few people see what you actually think.
Strengths
Insight, sincerity, devotion. Your depth of understanding of people is unusual.
What to Watch
Carrying other people's feelings drains you. Expecting to be understood completely lets disappointment accumulate.
Best Matches
Works well with ENTP and ENFP. Their lightness lifts some of your weight, and you give their outpouring meaning.
In a relationship
You read what is left unsaid and take it on before being asked. Acting on what you read without checking it exhausts both sides.
Strengths and the right setting
You last in work you can find meaning in. A job at odds with your convictions does not hold for long, however good the terms.
Distance with people
Involving yourself deeply with a few people means depleting quickly too. Putting time alone into the schedule in advance is the essential part.
Advice
Spend less time carrying it alone. If you do not say it, nobody knows.