The Lovers
Deciding between what pulls at you and what you believe is right.
- Arcana
- Major Arcana
- Element
- Air
- Choice
- Union
- Values
Upright
A deep connection is forming, or an important choice stands in front of you. The heart of it is values, not feelings: once it is clear what you hold more precious, the choice makes itself. In relationships, this is the phase of accepting each other as you are.
Reversed
Clashing values, or a decision you keep deferring. Trying to keep both options is draining the relationship — you have to name what you will give up.
Advice
Choose not what pulls harder, but what you can carry longer.